i am glad to hear that you did attend both parties and gave them a chance.
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or that I could never join another sorority (npc) ever?? .
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if you pledge a sorority and drop prior to initiation, then you are eligible to go through recruitement for another organization.
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PLEASE give me somadvice on what to do!! My rho gam encouraged me to rank the two I went to and said I didnt' have to sign a bid card tomorrow if I don't want to...
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someone with more experience on your campus can clarify just in case they do something different, but i believe that ranking the sororities after pref means that you will accept a bid from them. that is what binds you for one calendar year and makes you ineligible for cob.
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if I sign a bid (say, to mexico) and change my mind, does that mean I can't rush next year (sophomore) I don't think I'd want to do COB or informal, I might just want to be independant for a year and meet some people and get a better feel for each sorority on campus.
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you will be eligible for formal recruitment next year, just not cob this year.
i hope someone from your campus can hop in and clarify about the signing bids topic.
good luck and thanks for sharing your story.