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Originally Posted by pinkyphimu
if you decide after the pref parties and after really looking at why you didn't feel comfortable there that you truly are not a fit, then don't fill out a pref card. then you will be eligible to participate in cob.
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I'm so sorry to hear about Greece. But pinkyphimu is absolutely right, go to the pref ceremonies. You've got nothing to lose and everything to gain. If things still aren't right then don't fill out a pref card. Don't fill out a pref card, because at a lot of schools, if you receive a bid from a sorority you preferenced you're bound to that sorority for one year (or some other period of time).
Good luck. My best friend, one of the wisest women I know
likes to say "if it ain't right, it ain't over" and I think this is exactly what you need to keep in mind. I hope it turns out right for you sooner rather than later.