My whole family is greek with the exception of my mom and sister. So everyone knows better. If there was a sudden down pour or something though, of course I would give my mom or my sister my Nupie umbrella. Or any woman. That's what gentlemen do.
My Kanes are locked away so people don't touch. My paddle is out in the open. I always tell people they can touch it, but they have to give me three 1st, and they better not pop out of the Kut.
I have a friend who is a DST who I caught trying to twirl my Kane. She put it away when I caught her though. I told her she could play with my paddle though.

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