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Don't take one bad day at a house you've loved up to this point to cloud your opinion of that chapter. FSU chapters house many, many members. If you join a sorority, you will be sharing membership with the other sorority sisters, but it is a virtual guarantee that you won't love every single one. There will be a few with whom you may have completely different views. That is normal and the way of the world in being a part of a women's organization, sorority or no. You won't click with every single person.

It could just be you spoke with someone today who isn't a good rusher, was tired, or just isn't someone you'd click with. Remember that you've had a great time with those women up to this point and don't let one bad experience ruin your experience overall.

If you're shy, it's ok to say so or to say you're feeling nervous. It helps to keep a smile on your face, a light squeeze when you're shaking hands and to be prepared with questions. Lean in ever so slightly when someone is speaking-- this, along with smiling, makes you appear interested. If you have something in common with your recruiter, like a love of a certain TV show or activity, you may find the conversations a little easier than dry discussion about dues and philanthropy events. When you're talking about philanthropy, maybe you can reference the community service you have done and express your interest in the sorority's philanthropy by asking thoughtful questions or expressing appreciation for the chapter's philanthropy activities.

Continue to keep an open mind. With over 100 per chapter, you could easily find a fit in any one, and make strong friendships to make your FSU experience very special, indeed!