Assuming this is an NPC chapter, you cannot "get out" of having to wait one calendar year to join another sorority on your campus unless you transfer to a different university. Since you put XYZ on your pref card and signed it, you essentially said you would accept a bid from XYZ. Your pref card, not your bid card, is what has bound you to XYZ for one entire calendar year. The bid is just the invitation to join XYZ (which you already said you would accept by placing them on your pref card). Your Rho Gamma encouraged you to go to XYZ's bid day because you might have a good time and decide you really like XYZ and want to be a sister. If you have any questions about specific rules on your campus, or if the chapter is not NPC, you should contact your Greek Life advisor.
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