[mrguydude]

First of all, I deeply appreciate all the sound and non-judgemental advice you all have given. So I decided to take the right path as mentioned by some of you. I decided to come clean to my friend and to not put our close friendship at risk. I also decided to tell her what I was about to do. This had a duel purpose. First, she had a right to know plain and simple. Second, I knew it would reveal her intentions towards me ie. Was I a rebound? As soon as I told her what my course of action was going to be, she got very angry. As I spoke with her, she mentioned how much she wanted to get away from my friend (their relationship ended with abuse by the way). But when I stood my ground and told her that I would not build a relationship on the pain of a friend she began to say that she was still in love with him. Ultimately she has decided to go back to him. I know that in the end I did the right thing, but there is some sick irony here; none of us have moved forward. She will go back to him and probably be abused more and he will get away with it again. Everybody has returned to square one. Am I bitter? Yes a little bit because i feel used. I also know that I did the right thing for me and becuase of that, I can now go about my life without this burden. Funny how life tends to unfold in the most deranged way possible isn't it? Word of advice for anybody in this kind of situation; make sure you are aware of everybody in the trianges' intentions, act from your head and not you're heart and it just might work for you.