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To come this far in my life and have to deal with drama of this sort is so useless, IMHO. I could never deal with, mess with, date or sleep with any of my friends ex's. There is just to much that comes with it. Not to mention that the circle of sisters/friends I hold close to me all have such different taste in men, even still I could never do.
However that doesn't mean that it has not been done to me. In both cases the friendship had to come to an end, mainly due to the gossip and slander that came with it. I've seen some women who can deal with it and move on but I have also witnessed things just fal apart completely with female friendships. One word of advice I would offer to anyone in this particular situation would be. if you are not cool with the situation, voice it as soon as you become made aware of it. Hiding what you feel toward your friend and ex will only add issues.
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