True, KLPDaisy. However, I also know a lot of girls who accepted the bid to their not favorite house and ended up being excellent members. I have 3 that jump to mind immediately in my chapter.
Rumbly - Did you even go to bid day? I would encourage you to give it a shot for a few weeks if you can. Get to know your peldge sisters and see how the house acts in a less formal setting. If in a few weeks you still feel the same, then drop out, but you'll never know if you don't try. Of course, if you already declined then never mind, I guess.