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Originally posted by RedHotChiO
Cream,
I don't feel that my affiliation with KA is a bad thing. I always feel so honored that they selected me to be one of their little sisters. I didn't get asked to be one because I dated only KAs and I most certainly didn't try to be a little sister the way that some girls do. I see it more as a sign that I am a girl that they really respect and that they want to see their letters on. I don't find it all derogatory. My job is not to clean up their house, wash their dishes or anything like that. When I do things with KA it is more out of my love for that organization as well. In terms of me neglecting my chapter, I put in a lot of time into my sorority and Chi Omega things will always come before KA. I pledged myself as a sister of Chi Omega way before I was ever asked to become a KA Rose. I hope that this sheds some new perspective on the matter for you.
RedHotChiO
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I never suggested that your affiliation with KA was a bad thing or that you neglected your chapter. I wondered why a sorority sister would want to be a little sister. I thought that these groups were outlawed or at best unofficial which was my original question.
Your original post stated that you "feel as though there is a wicked rivalry that exists between us, especially for KA things, like selecting little brothers and helping out with rush." You obviously enjoy being a KA Rose so I hope that find a resolution to this wicked rivalry. One suggestion, when I was in college and there were jobs to do, we would write them down and pick them out of a hat. After that, we would rotate. It's random, luck of the draw and everyone gets a chance. I hope it helps!