Ladies, may I say a word on your forum?
When I was in college, there was a girl who was determined to be a Chi O. She went through formal rush 3 times and finally made it! I mean, this is Auburn rush we're talking about--it's really rough!
I remember, though, in the meantime she got involved in tons of activities and made her resume look really good. So Heather, if you want that bid, start working!