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Originally Posted by SydneyK
I agree completely. It sounds like you're in the early stages of a relationship with this guy. And, as we all know, relationships with even the healthiest of people (mentally or otherwise) are trying enough. I know you're into the guy, and that you've developed feelings for him, but it's early enough that you can let go without being devastated. Likewise, it's probably early enough that HE won't be devastated. If you really care about him, I'd back off until you know whether meds will work for him, whether he'll actually take them like he's supposed to, whether meds will help him keep from treating you badly, and whether you feel like you can't live without him. Only once those criteria have been determined can you start to think about getting back together.
Sorry to be so blunt. I know it's hard, but seriously, staying with him through everything (at least in the beginning) will be harder. Do yourself a favor and let him fly solo for a while.
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I totally get what you're saying. We lasted 2 months, and through all that he was lying. I found out what stuff he was lying to me about from someone else, and I don't blame him for lying. We broke it off cuz I couldn't take the lying anyore, and I'd call him out on the stuff that I could. He wasnted to break it off cuz he couldn't take my questions all the time.... this was def for the better. I just don't know if I should keep this friendship going or not.