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Old 08-20-2006, 06:34 PM
KSUViolet06 KSUViolet06 is offline
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I can totally see why you're hurt, she's your child and you can probably not fathom why a group wouldn't want your daughter to be a part of their sisterhood. And that's ok.

From what you say, she's very accomplished. For alot of girls, this is their first real experience with rejection. They've succeeded at EVERY SINGLE thing they've ever decided to pursue. Then they come to college, want to rush, go though, and get cut. It's very heartbreaking for them because they don't understand why they were so successful at everything, but didn't get a bid at rush.

Just be there for her. Listen to her cry, Be an open ear. Eventually, this hurt will pass. She'll get into her classes, meet friends (even guys), do other fun stuff, and things will get better.

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