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Originally Posted by navane
I know you are feeling a little surprised and upset; but, do be careful with saying that the recs were a waste of time. Saying that would be a disservice to the women who took the time to write them for you. PNMs should understand that recs are never a "magic ticket" to be invited back or receive a bid to an organization. Though, it sounds to me like you probably spoke out of frustration and disappointment.
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Pretty much yeah I was just really frustrated when I got home and am still kinda sad. Although I knew recs weren't the "magic ticket", I thought they would help me a little bit more although I have recs for three out of the four chapters that did ask me back. I think recs are great for giving a chapter an into to a person. All I think is everything will get better and go through with a positive attitude even though I might be upset. Thanks everyone and I truly do appreciate the awesome women who wrote me recs!