I am sorry to hear that today was a disappointment for you. Just keep your chin up and keep on with the process and see how it goes.
I know you are feeling a little surprised and upset; but, do be careful with saying that the recs were a waste of time. Saying that would be a disservice to the women who took the time to write them for you. PNMs should understand that recs are never a "magic ticket" to be invited back or receive a bid to an organization. Though, it sounds to me like you probably spoke out of frustration and disappointment.
It sounds like you're making a connection with Debbie. It's great to have a favorite; but, do be mindful to not "put all of your eggs in one basket" so to speak. As I said above, march on and see what all of the chapters have to offer!
.....Kelly
