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asking PNMs where else they were going..
Maybe it was just my school, but we were instructed to not ask "what other parties will you be going to today" type questions for several reasons.
The main one obviously being that if a PNM only got invited to a handful of parties and didn't have a full schedule, she might be feeling bummed about being rejected from the other houses she may have been interested in.
Like someone mentioned, for a lot of women, being cut at rush may be the first taste of "rejection" these women have to go through, so even though it may very well turn out to be a blessing in the end, there is still the possibility they are upset that they don't have a full party schedule like some of the other pnms may have, or maybe they got cut from a house that was their favorite up until that point.
Anyhow, I'm sending you the very very best wishes CW!!!
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