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NEVER would I have had sex on the first date and I don't believe things have changed all that much. So let's put the shoe on the other foot. This is what we called the "physical reacton" test.
You are with a guy and the two of you are at a point where you either go forward or back off.(Everybody has their clothes on!) This is what we looked for.
1. Controled but heavey breathing.
2. trembling
3. Increased heart beat
4. Dry mouth/sweaty hands
5. The big "Hellooooooo" sign.
When these "symptoms" were present and the guy had the strength to say something like "Are you busy tomorrow?" or "Can I call you?" without trying to go any farther...that's when we knew we were with someone who was looking for more than a quickie. If the attraction was mutual, he was the guy we went home wondering about-what it would be like. The guy who came on like a Don Juan was not to be trusted because we knew he had polished his approach and that's all it was...an approach.
These were the musings of some college girls in the '70's, but there's still some truth in it today.
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