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Please be brave?
I like that.
I've always looked at it as going out on a limb. And it is. With some people that moment comes much sooner than others.
My ex husband and I slept together on our first date. And no, that had nothing to do w our breakup!!
Basically, if I feel it and its appropriate, why not? If I don't, if we haven;t connected on that level that makes me feel like its good to go, then we wait---could be 3-4 dates, could be 3-4 months-depends on the situation.
I cAN say for sure though, that the future mr. amycat will not have any hang ups about this and will be in sync with me--if we feel like having sex on the first date, we will, if we don't we'll wait--but there will be no judgements or hang ups about it.
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