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Originally posted by James
In this context we are not talking about disease etc. We are talking about not taking the counsel of our fears in regards to whether we risk our current friendship to see if we can take the relationship to a new level.
There is nothing mercenary about it, there is just not being so blinded by what you perceive might go wrong (with the friendship/love affair) that you take no action and miss a golden opportunity.
Not deciding is deciding. Not going forward means deciding to stay in place or drift behind.
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I get your point cap'n, but I'd personally forgo(sp?) the "golden opportunity" of getting some ass with a friend tonight just so I could have my personal and emotional issues in order when i wake up in the morning. Again, this is just my opinion, because I wouldn't necessarily fault a guy for taking the opportunity.