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TexasDaughter has personal letters of recommendation for many, but not all of the houses at her campus. Some of my friends who are sorority alumnae and known her for years, voluntereed to write the recommendations. Also, our local alumnae association has assisted with others. However, many people have cautioned us that having a pile of recs isn't the important thing at this school -- it's much more important to relate well with the sisters.
Also, I don't want her to get too caught up in getting into a so-called "top" sorority. She's trying to keep a truly open mind about all of the groups, and wants to give all the houses a fair chance. I think she really is clear-headed about what she wants, and that is, first to truly be part of a sisterhood and second, to be involved in an organization that contributes to helping others in a meaningful way.
Incidentally, we read a thread awhile back about how loud it is during the parties at the various houses. TexasDaughter knows she's going to have to speak clearly. We both thought that was an interesting tidbit and one that many PMNs and moms might not think of.
So right now we're counting down. We've hit various shopping malls and bought a lot of shoes -- that's been a challege -- finding cute AND comfortable footwear! The old Visa card has taken a hit.
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