[BadSquirrelBeta]

and I am glad your boyfriend is supportive.

My husband wasn't greek in college, but he is a member of what consider to be the "biggest fraternity in the world"...the United States Marine Corps. Anyway, I was a 5th year when we got together and had already had my Greek experience, which I was so happy for.

We are only on campus and enmeshed in Greek and Campus life for such a short time when you think of it. **BUT** don't make a decision for a lifetime affiliation with pressure from people that may not be in your life forever, or at least a pretty substantial time.

My AGD now is something I just "do", like Mark's Marine Corps League or both of us supportive with our boys' sports and activities... It's OK that AGD isn't the focal point of my life now, but still remains a part of me.