I can understand having a true change of heart as I also endured the same. The difference is that I discovered my preference through research BEFORE attending a rush or expressing interest. My mother is a member of one NPHC sorority, and I another, so that can be done. However, knowing that you attended a rush I must say your work is cut out for you. From now on use discretion, research and choose your words wisely. Admit your mistake, but expect no miracles.
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