I agree with you on all points!
And because of the size of the Auburn chapters, I think that terms like "good fit" are less relevant. Every chapter has its beauties, its athletes, its strong Christians, etc. and most women could feel at home in any of them. I made such a big deal about how perfect Pi Phi was for me and it was but honestly, I look at the chapters I went almost all the way with and I would have fit in there too.
As I write this, the girls are flooding the computer labs to get their pref invitations.