I'm not a "mom" but I was VERY nervous when my niece went through recruitment 2 years ago. I hoped she would get a bid..yea she's terrific, etc. but at this large SEC school, unfortunate twists happen through no fault of the pnms.
Thankfully, she got a bid and is very happy with her sorority. She's not an AGD but she got 2 of the letters
Take it from a Chapter Advisor, it's tough on us too! We see all the wonderful pnms go to through, wish we could take all we wanted but know that we can't.
Esp. when the CA's don't get to vote, lol.