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When you say things like "the promiscuity that is common here" that leads me to believe that even if you aren't saying anything straight out, you're being judgemental of your sisters. No one likes to be judged. Especially if the person judging was right beside you doing whatever a couple months earlier.
If you've changed your habits and such at the same time you met a guy - no matter how much you say up and down it's a coincidence, it's not going to look that way. It's going to look like "dahlia used to be fun, now since she met this guy she never wants to hang out with us." Again, put yourself in their position. When a friend dumps you (or seems to dump you) for a guy, it sucks.
Have you made an effort to bring your boyfriend around the sorority house and meet your sisters? What's his whole attitude toward your sorority membership?
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