Heather-
I'm also sorry it did not work out. Just please know that when we choose the final women for the two pref parties- those are THE women we want so very badly to be our sisters. Unfortunately- numbers and quota win over what the heart wants.
I understand Spring Recruitment begins January 22nd - do you feel like trying again? Now that you have been thru it once- you might be able to go through and see things that you did not see/feel before.
Please keep in touch and let us know how things go. I checked out what sororities are at that campus and there are so many great ones there- Delta Zeta - woo hoo!! Alpha Glamour Delta Women (thats a compliment on your beauty ladies!, Kappa - top top top! and AOPi (a fav of Hootie's and mine) - and seeing how Pi Phi and XO already thought the world enough of you to invite you to pref...... I'm surprised you don't have that ole recruitment form and $20.00 bucks to Panhel already! Get going girl!
Love Sue