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Even if you don't haze, I think it's a little naive to say you'll have the same bonds with your brothers or sisters everywhere simply because you share the same ritual. Unless you work at a national level or get very involved with an alum chapter, the bonds made in your collegiate chapter will most likely be the strongest. Before I get 800 posts chiming in, I know there are exceptions to this. But for the TYPICAL fraternity or sorority member, that's how it is.
I mean, I would probably have more in common with someone else who went to Clarion or is from Pittsburgh than I would with my sisters from other parts of the country. That doesn't mean it isn't neat to meet sisters and know that we share things, but I don't think it trumps any other kind of friendship.
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