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Originally Posted by JocelynC
We get alot of girls who come through thinking that the NM period is going to be similar to that of some Lifetime movie, and they're like shaking and nervous on the night of Arc Degree (NM ceremony) thinking that something awful is going to happen to them. They are quite relieved once they go through it and realize that it's perfectly harmless.
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We always had the same thing. NM's scared to death until they got through the night. We did have one NM during my junior year who basically begged to be hazed. She flat out told some actives that she was disappointed. When her violet sister (not big sis, but someone who is there to answer questions the and is paired with a NM until she gets her big) sat down and talked to her what she wanted to happen was not hazing like is discussed here. She just wanted to be singled out more but not in a negative way at all. We later figured out she was kind of a drama queen and wanted more attention. When she realized the difference between hazing and attention she was happier.