Well . . .
All women that I date should be willing to have sex on the first night, although I understand that the opportunity might not be there. ITs disturbing to think she wouldn't be willing if the situation and mood were correct. Why would she play a game like that?
I mean I certainly would be willing on the first date with the right mood and location, and I would hate to embrace a double standard or play the girl by holding out
As far as respecting her, I never really thought about it.
I have had some friends say they would date/go out with (which necessitates respect) a girl that had sex (or oral sex) with them on the first date . . . but would never marry them.
Actually I have heard that a lot from guys, the never marry response. I had a friend thatw as dating a girl for over 3 years and told me point blank he would never ever marry her because she had sex with the first night.