[Scandia]

Ah, nagging relatives. I have those as well.

Just tell them that you have a very full life, and if you meet the right person to share it with, that's fantastic- but that if not, you are just as content. And if they don't get the hint, tell them bluntly "better alone than in bad company"- even if all the people you have dated in the past were good persons who simply weren't a good match for you.

And the "having babies" question is not only nosy and intrusive, but possibly offensive and hurtful. What if the couple does not want kids, or if they find out that one or both cannot have them, or even if they could it is rather risky to their health? If the askers want children that badly, they can go to the DCF orphanage and get a foster kid.