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Originally Posted by adpiucf
Hold it out. This stuff happens at every place I have ever worked-- from locations with 3000+ employees to those with only 20 employees. Some have onsite HR, others have a CFO handling medical claims-- you're subject to office drama everywhere.
If it is really intolerable, quit, but it seems like you're about to be lifted out of the situation. You are doing the right thing by keeping your nose clean. Keep repeating to yourself: It's just a job.
I've also found that it helps to go to lunch with co-workers and share photos of your dogs... but don't socialize outside of work-- keep the two separate. They're great co-workers, but when they become your friends, your life revolves around work. It causes ulcers.
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What do you do when you believe in that philosophy, but other coworkers do not? In other words, they all spend massive amounts of time together, date inside the company, buy stuff from each other, etc... when you just would rather do your job, maybe have lunch and talk, and go home... at best, have a few drinks after work?