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Originally Posted by Scandia
Anyhow, regarding the original topic, I am afraid that someone else may have snagged the guy already. Another co-worker, that is. He waved to her this morning when she came into the staff meeting. They did not seem to flirt or look at each other or stand next to each other. However, they exited the workplace together today- they came down the same elevator and seemed to be headed towards the same parking lot. It may not be what it seems, but I have a very strong intuition. And I am upset to be honest. I will gladly still pursue a friendship, since we do share similar interests. And I will try my best to see it simply as an isolated event and not in the cosmic sense. I do not have much experience with relationships, but I am a healthy person with many friends who gets along with my co-workers.
Rudey- that's old news. Find something new.
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Wow, you are being very presumptuous, I wonder if you're doing it subconsciously as an excuse to convince yourself out of your feelings for him. You have absolutely ZERO indication that anything is going on with them. Men and women can be friends. They can leave work together, they can hang out, etc. without there being romantic relationship involved. I hang out with guys that I work with all the time. It's part of being social and networking.
If you do not have much experience with relationships, you really shouldn't rely on your "intuition" because you don't have anything to base that intuition on.
You don't have to justify things all the time, like adding the qualifier that "I am a healthy person with many friends who gets along with my co-workers." Such a lack of self confidence can really undermine any points you are trying to make or personal relationships you are trying to build. Have self confidence and don't try to frame things like that. As the saying goes, you have to learn to love yourself before someone else can love you.