Soror, I would advise you not to. I just ended a 2 year relationship with a separated man. The wife and children lived in another state far away from here so they really were not an interference in our relationship. He even got a divorce this year but now I don't want to be bothered. The thing is, they aren't really, truly "yours" and can't be if they are legally bound to someone else. I learned a lot about myself and reality so you can e-mail me and we can chat if you like.
Oh Soror Serious: I feel you on that one. As soon as they give me a "pager number" or something other than a home phone number I hand it right back to them.
Only the truly single should apply.