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Breath mints, sour candies, and oil blotting paper (for faces) would all be welcome additions to a goodie bag.

As far as what to say...that should have been covered in your Pi Chi training? Nothing is going to make them feel better, but you should be prepared to answer the "why me" questions and be honest regarding any questions regarding COB, etc. For example, if you know a girl had a 2.0 GPA you can honestly tell her that her grades were a big factor in her being dropped. Academics are a big part of sorority life. Encourage her to work on her academics and then go through Spring recruitment.