[wrigley]

Adelphean and previous posters are stating that it's hurtful to be blunt about someone else's flaws. No one is perfect. When someone has a addiction be it to food, alcohol, etc... the psychological problem is bigger sometimes than the physical action. In some cases they're feeding their feelings of inadequacy.

Whether it's a friend or a family member, it's important to let them know you care for them just as they are warts and all. Unconditional love and support is a rare commodity these days.