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					Originally Posted by Drolefille
					
				 I think both sides assume that the other is preaching.. ... | 
	
 I don't think any of us were preaching to the OP.  He asked a question and we answered, then he asked us more questions and we answered those.  The "preaching" part came up as a reason some of us would be apprehensive to get involved with a person with the qualities he mentioned.