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Originally Posted by valkyrie
WTF? He asked for opinions. He's getting them. What's the problem? If he's bothered by what anybody is saying, he's perfectly capable of saying so himself.
It's great if you think that "Seeing yourself in a long term relationship is exactly when sex should occur." It's not great if you're going to blast people for giving opinions that were REQUESTED because you're defensive. If you're not defensive, why else would you respond like this? Everybody has an opinion on the issue of sex/drinking/drug use and in this thread, people have expressed those opinions. Why go into attack mode?
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Because I feel like you guys are on the attack for someone who chooses not to do the same thing you do. I feel like the judging is hypocritical. For someone to get all uptight about a guy not having sex, and be offended if anyone questions if what they do is right.... is just silly.
I blame extra anger on the lack of sleep...but..
The long term relationship thing isn't really a belief. We studied this stuff in my psych class. Psychology is never definate like "hard" science, but it does show trends and such. Hence my statements on vulnerability, etc...
I notice people who tend to get upset about those who Don't drink/do drugs/have sex, seem to think that by the very nature of someone NOT doing these things, THEY are being judged... so they go on the defensive.