actually, we have discussed affiliation with panhellenic several times about wanting to go national, and all they have done was discussed the process with us and not helped us with it. i personally have called nationals (delta zeta, tri delta, and phi mu) to see about getting them on campus and affiliating with us, however in order for them to come onto campus they have to be invited. panhellenic pretty much screwed us over because they have known for a very very very long time how important it was for us to be nationals, yet they did not invite the sororities on campus telling them you have to pick us up as we feel they should have. panhellenic knew for the beginning this is what we wanted, and didn't care.
also, tri sigma never told us to disband. like someone said earlier, they pretty much said if you as individuals want this then as individuals you can go through. i really don't hold that against them, as they were not forced to take us over...it is probably easier for them to start off with a clean slate...in a nut shell, tri sigma did not screw us, they didn't have a part in this, but our panhellenic did as they always have.
