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Originally Posted by Drolefille
The funny thing is that a lot of people are claiming that sober virgins are preachy and judgemental. Take a step back and look at what you're doing. He has not presented himself as judgemental, though you jumped on one phrase in ONE reply. Yet you are judging him and people like him!
Hello!
Logic train.. it went that way.. hop on board.
Assuming that any 21 year old who's a virgin is gay, repressed, hyper-religious, or going to hump anything that moves after the first time is STUPID.
Just as you would hope a guy you meet wouldn't look at your sexual past and go "UGH" you really shouldn't do the same to him.
Seeing yourself in a long term relationship is exactly when sex should occur. Sex is basically the most vulnerable moment in your life. The time when a laugh can crush you, and when you are emotionally and physically naked in front of your partner. There's no way in HELL I'm doing that with someone I don't trust completely.
And if I broke up with my current long term boyfriend, I would have to get to know someone very well before I'd take that chance.
/Your results may vary
//Psychology of Sex is a FUN class
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Ummm...calm down chica. lol
But, I do agree that sex is one of the most vulnerable moments in your life, where you don't have much control. So is being high or wasted. Or flying, lol.