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Originally Posted by kddani
This is your original question, asking for our opinions:
You were given some opinions, now you're trying to argue with them and convince us otherwise. This is EXACTLY what would turn me off from someone who doesn't drink or have sex-this preachiness.
You're entitled to your opinions, but we're entitled to ours that it's a turn off to be lectured or questioned with something like this.
You gave very limited information. You said virgin, no drinking and no drugs. We have no choice but to make an assumption. No, I personally wouldn't date the guy. Might he be lame? Perhaps, that's not a word I usually use to describe people. I'd probably just say hey, whatever floats your boat, but it's not for me.
I can respect someone's personal decisions, but that doesn't mean that I think that they're compatible with mine.
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I not trying to disrespect you opinion, as I stated before, I'm just trying to understand where people with different values are coming from. I'm giving my perspective on things just like you are. There's a differance between debating and arguing...never once did I claim that my way of doing things is the absolute right way and your way is bad. But the questions that i am asking is based off of my values and are specific to them. Like I said, I can't help how you recieve the questions that I ask but my intensions are just to have a mature debate about what people value in the opposite sex.