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Originally Posted by adpiucf
I hardly doubt the bride is paying for some people's rooms and leaving other attendants on their own. And if she is, that's incredibly stupid.
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I don't think it's "incredibly stupid" to pay for some and not others. I did this. Each bride needs to make their own decision about things. I knew the financial situation of my various attendants. One had the means to pay it all when I asked, then some things came up. Instead of making her step down b/c she couldn't afford everything, I helped her out with her dress and offered her the spare bed at my apartment (parents were in our room, we were at a hotel). I could have offered it to any of my attendants, but I knew she couldn't afford the hotel so she got the offer.
Now, if she is paying for everyone
except PhiMuLady, that's one thing, but if she's helping out an attendant or two, that's really no one's business but the bride.