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FSUZeta's right, there is no good/easy answer to your situation. The viewpoints differ from one Chapter to another, one sorority to another and one campus to another.
I've heard of some that view it as an exciting challenge to try and "steal" a legacy away from another sorority, particularly an on-campus in house active's sister. I've heard that some figure it's pointless to even try and so drop the PNM early. Then there are some that are hopeful a PNM will make up her own mind and so treat her like everyone else. (Frankly, that's my choice.)
So unless you know an in house active who is willing to share that info, you'll never know how a Chapter views this scenario.
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