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Originally Posted by FSUZeta
connie, what did she mean that you all needed to look at "girls going thru together?"
at fsu, even back in the day, we did seem to know when a group of girls was going thru together--they seemed to go back to the same houses and they scheduled which houses they went to together. i don't remember anyone being concerned that they were going thru en mass-we were more concerned with two girls going thru together -we were always worried that if we did not pledge both girls, the one offered the bid might not accept.
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That's right we needed to recognize the fact that girls from Summer orientation or from the same high school might BOND and might want to stay together not necessarily "en mass" but that they might "think alike" or at least listen to eachother during recruitment. She just recommended that we keep that in mind. Which of course we already knew, but I haven't really thought about the opposite happening where the girls might want to think "seperatly."
There is so much to think about when recruiting from the inside and my hint, for a pnm in a "group" is to let the sorority you are interested in know that you are interested in them "no strings attached" as it were.
I hope I made more since that time.