[33girl]

Some campuses will not give a bid to a girl who has suicide. Either the computer program kicks her out or this policy has been enacted for certain reasons (usually abuse of the system).

If this is the case w/ SY's PNM, she should put down 1) her first choice 2) a group or 2 who dropped her right away and that she doesn't have a snowball's chance in hell of joining. This way if she doesn't match with her first choice, she will be "free" and not bound to any group.

There's a difference between "they're OK" and "I would rather live on an iceberg and be eaten by polar bears than join this group." If it's #2, then by NO circumstances should you EVER put it on your bid card...no matter what anyone says.