[kddani]

So it's okay to blatantly lie to girls, because, hey, it's not like they were going to even have a shot anyway? Unconnected PNMs may not have a shot, but that doesn't make it okay to lie to them.

I don't see how being misleading or straight up lying to someone is a good thing, and certainly doesn't fit into the ideals of any of our groups.

What's wrong with saying something like "Some groups require recs. Some do not. It is strongly suggested that PNM's try to obtain recs for all groups."

Now i'm not saying this as a national thing, but for schools where recs really are required by many/most groups, why can't Panhel say something like this?

I'm guessing they won't because technically, recs ARE the responsibility of the sororities (I believe that's the panhel policy, i'm not certain as I don't have a greenbook, but that's what everyone always says), but some sororities/chapters don't follow that rule. So as long as they don't admit to it, it's okay?

I understand different campuses have different cultures and ways of doing thing. My issue is with lying to PNM's about it.