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on the flip side of that Future, don't dislike a group just because your friends or roommates are interested in it. Sororities at SEC schools are typically very large and it will be easy to make your own set of friends within the sorority. Two girls in my class were best friends and roommates. They were both interested in DG but didn't want to use each other as a crutch instead of making new friends. So during all the new member activities they were careful not to sit together or ride to the house together. It was a long time before I even knew they were friends outside of DG! I would suggest talking to your friends about the process, keeping an open mind, and how you may not end up the same place, but that's okay - you'll still stay friends, etc. And if during the process you hear someone bashing a sorority, just say, "hey guys, you never know which one of us may end up a sister there." good luck and keep us posted!
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