I think that keeping your rush process a "secret" from your friends is a very smart idea. I rushed as a sophomore with one my my bestest friends. We shared everything about rush, stayed in the same rush group (even if we weren't suppose to) and had the same judgement as each other. If she didn't like XYZ...i didn't (even if I really did.) Once bid day came, she chose ABC and I chose RST and she was PISSED! She wanted us to stay in the same group and that wasn't happening...so long story short...we don't talk anymore. I'd hate for that to happen to you (although i doubt it would).
Just keep an open mind all the way to the end...and do be prepared for the worst, cause it might happen. Learn all you can about the sororities, so that you can ask them questions and such. Just have fun!
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