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Originally Posted by FSUZeta
a lot of campuses have large #'s of pnms going thru recruitment,so remembering a pnm who is not invited back, unless you personally rushed them one evening, is low. you have not made any promises to the pnm, she has had as fair a chance as anyone else and the chips fell the way they did. i have felt bad for pnms whom i met and felt would not be asked to join any group.
in that same vein, the pnm should not feel guilty if she receives an invitation to a party and declines the invitation. she needs to find the group that best fits her needs and wants.
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At my school we usually have between 8-45 girls rushing and at most 2-3 of them don't get bids. It's a rarity by us to go bidless which is why I tend to feel bad.