Giving this thread a great big BUMP so as not to start a new one on a similar subject. With regard to bidless rushees, when you see girls after recruitment, do you feel guilty? We had a girl go through recruitment when I was a rho chi who didn't get a bid. She friended me on facebook and myspace and is social with some of my friends. Every time I see her and we talk, I tend to feel a little guilty (especially if I'm going to something sorority-related) because she never got that chance. I was talking to one of my pledge sisters about it and she thinks that we have no reason why we should feel guilty when girls go bidless because there are reasons for it. What are people's thoughts on this?
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