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I think the Big/Little thing varies from chapter to chapter...at my chapter, just like the above poster, we do a mutual selection...new members and potential Bigs rank their top 3 or 4 choices and the new member educator matches as many as possible.
Just keep an open mind and takes things one at a time...no need to worry about Bigs and Littles...that will come with time...worry about being yourself and finding a group where you can picture yourself with the girls...in good times and in bad (haha, kinda like a wedding).
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There are friends who pass like ships in the night, who meet for a moment, then sail out of sight, with never a backward glance of regret...Friends we meet briefly then quickly forget.
Then there are friends who sail together, through quiet waters and stormy weather. Helping each other through joy and through strife. And those are the kind who give meaning to life.
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