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Right now I feel so incredibly lucky. I had never ever thought about going greek when I came to school, and when I did, my best friend was there, also going greek. She and I went from being best friends in high schiil, to college roomates, to living right across the ally (wow, could that have worked out better??) and my other best friend is a in Kappa Kappa Psi (band fraternity) and a service frasternity as well, so even though he might not be social greek, he understands how much it means.
If you and your friend are having some problems, set aside a time to just sit down with her and talk. Explain that you aren't giving up your friendship, but you would love her support as you enter this next chapter in your life. Reasure her that she'll always be #1 in your book, but you want to be able to have this special experience too.
Like IowaHawkeye suggested, set aside one night (or more) a week to have dinner and catch up. I do it with my best friend and no matter what kind of tests we have, it's always nice to have those couple hours where you can just release, relax, gossip and catch up. It means a lot to both of us that we put everything down to have that time together.
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